Shangri-la belonged to yourself

慢慢开始理解为什么有“害怕成功”的说法了。

只因成功的狂喜慢慢远去，自信心慢慢回复正常水平时所产生的江湖称之为“崩溃”的东西。太空虚，于是，人们就会去用自己与别人比较，而成功之人由于强烈的进取心，总是优先用自己的弱点跟别人优点比较，一比较，“崩溃”。

常常发现内心的空虚及烦躁皆源于“比较”。

此时也就是需要去寻找真正属于自己的shangri-la的时候了。

在这种情况下，我会带一支笔、一个本子，来到教室，随心所欲写一些东西，也会慢慢恢复平静。

听你的心，掌握自己的节奏，不要生活在对比中。

这段话是《寻找香格里拉:现代经文游记(英文版)》中的一段话，送给大家：

And now Beijing is no longer Beijing ,the tree lined streets no longer have trees,only cement. The old courtyard houses are gone, replaced bu cement. There seems ti be nothing anymore here but traffic and cement. The city gevernment seemed very proud of all of its cement because it looks just like the cement in America. So they are putting more cement on top of the cement, to try and look more like America.

And everybody calls me to ask for advice about how to make money in China. I guess the western businessman have discovered that they can sell cement to China. So the phone is always ringing, ringing, ringing, ringing, and still ringing. Sometimes all fo these busiessman calling me are upset that I have not read my emails. They expect me to wait for an email, as if life was embodied in an electronic debice. I would rather wait for nothing at all. I tell them to stop sending me emails because I won't sit in front of a computer screen waiting for their emails, waiting to die hoping to receive and send an email. I can not believe that life can be concentrated and reduced to one single dignitized electronic message which is not even spelled correctly.